This article is dedicated to all those in the church who are caught or contemplating some sort of extramarital relationship. I know there are many, so don't try to front. There are some principles of whoredom that are consistent. I call them Ho Rules. They are designed to let you know that no matter how things may appear to serve you right now, sexual immorality has an immense cost and toll on a person for a number of years. In some cases it may never be overcome. The aim of this post is to help you avoid the predictable pitfalls of sexual immorality, especially in the church. There is some humor, but please don't miss the message.
Note: to the GODLY WOMEN, some of you may have been what I point out here, but because of Jesus you are no longer what you were. Thank God and we honor that and let you know that you are precious, valuable and needed now like never before! Teach these men how to identify these things because too many of us really don't know. (I sorry but I placed her picture on the other side of the page, it was too close to mine) Let's proceed:
"For by means of a WHORISH WOMAN [a man is brought] to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life."
"I'm a person very much committed to the truth"
On a show that was revealing and personal, I couldn't help but think to myself, "This woman is CRAZY as 2 left shoes on a double clubbed right foot" Rielle tried to paint the picture of her normalcy, her humanity, her realness, her values, her conservatism as IF they were anything close to reality. She tried to explain her sex tape with a married man that she intended to be found...she tried to explain her bond with another woman's husband, which she has no regrets about hurting. Believe me John is in no way exempt and is much worse than this psychologically messed up woman in my opinion, but she the one doing the talking and blaming everyone but herself.
What she did successfully was reveal that she is suffering from deep psychological problems, an intimate fixation and the whole nine, which from all evidence, she suffered from before she met former Senator and Presidential candidate John Edwards. Rielle suffers from more than an overdose of overt selfishness, and sleepy, calculating stupidity that will bite and sting for life if one is caught in her site.
Ho Rule 1: The ho always wants others to believe that she is a good person and a person who wouldn't hurt or damage anything or anyone.
This is a sham and the ho knows it is a sham. It is a lie to make her feel better about herself and her actions which she knows she wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of. Proverbs 4 and 5 are clear. The ho is destructive and ready to destroy on every hand. Her intents are no good and she will take you to hell. Her words are good and smooth, just like Rielle's, but they are full of deceit. If you didn't know, now you know!
May The Force Be With You
Rielle: "I called him because I really wanted to help him"
Rielle: "I did know he was married but I didn't know what their marriage was like?"
Rielle: "I know him like the back of my hand. I can feel it, I know when he's lying"Then she describes an unusual relationship of Edwards:
Rielle: "Now he has turned into the father of my child. he is no longer the married boyfriend. That changes things"Married boyfriend??? Is that even a designation or title??? Is there any honor in having a married boyfriend??? She further states:
Ho Rule 5: The ho always claim to have some special connection. This is only a bluff.
A person that has only been with a person sexually and behind closed doors cannot know a person. They cut out 90% of life's experiences and a person is not known by 10% or less of their self. It is a deception of lust both ways...1 the adulteress deceives herself into believing that she has some special place or knowledge and 2 the adulterer feels that someone serving his sexual and emotional needs is really connecting when the truth is that there is no real, true or lasting connection. The bondage becomes more burdensome and the only thing that is being pursued is a fantasy.
I'm Just Doing What He Wanted
Rielle tried over and over again to say that she and Edwards had a special link and unity. She described that they were close emotionally. So close that she could "feel" him in certain instances. She said that it was him that wanted her and that their relationship was sweeping and utterly passionate:
Rielle: "He was available, he wanted to be with me"Ho Rule 6: The ho will always paint the picture that it was the man that pursued her.
Rielle: "Our hearts were louder than our minds"
Don't think for a minute that a man will simply walk away from a situation and be able to keep a reputation in tact. He will either become a predator, stalker, pedophile or some type of sexual deviant. The trade for all this closeness are secrets is that the average person doesn't really know. This is the trap. These are chips that the whorish woman will cash in at the appropriate time in effort to sway public opinion if there is ever a possibility that she will be embarrassed or lose what she desires to obtain. Man don't play the game, you will lose!
It's Everyone Else's Fault, No Remorse
One characteristic that is consistent with selfish people, is that they rarely take responsibility for their circumstance. Even though the interview was filled with countless lies and delusions, Rielle is no different in this area. You see, it was the people that caused her to interview with GQ while she posed with no pants...It was the people that said she was an ugly slut that caused her to spruce herself up and show the world that she was a bright witty and sensible and sexy woman. (and we did gag repeatedly!)
According to Rielle it is the people that are mad at her for her part in contributing to the destruction of the Edward's home, but there is really no reason for that. She doesn't feel that she's to blame. In fact she doesn't regret her actions at all.
in Rielle's world, she doesn't have to be judged by an ultimate standard and suggest that she should be exempt from the judgement of others. Toward the end of the show, addressing the public complaints that she is fully aware of, she began to blame the public for how it feels, saying that she's not to blame for that either. She says,
Rielle: "It's their (the people's) judgement of what's right and wrong. It's their fear. It doesn't have to do with me."Ho Rule 7: Time is currency with a ho and it pays big dividends
Oprah: "Do you regret being his mistress?"
Rielle: "No. I went against everything I am, but I don't regret it."
What an adulterer sometimes doesn't understand is that every minute with a ho is like gold. She has time that not even a spouse, family or church members can account for and that knowledge is like currency in her hands. unaccounted for time gives rise and credibility to certain accusations. That's partially why saints don't need Twitter and in many cases Facebook. Ho's love to know time and location and they will use that knowledge to their advantage.
Ho Rule 8: The ho is rarely thinking about what the emotional experiences of the spouse or children are. If that were the case she wouldn't be a ho.
The ho sometimes sends the man home for his own good or for the good of the family, but that's after she's collected the necessary evidence and things mentioned in the previous ho rules. This is a fake move designed to build upon already reeling emotions.
Ho Rule 9: After any sort of extended period of sex with a ho, there will always be either a baby, abortion, miscarriage, sickness or illness.
Ho's are notorious for creating a situation that generates special attention. If she slept with a man unprotected, she has done it previously. Some pregnancies are period pregnancies. She may claim a pregnancy when she is bloated in effort to get you allegiance. When a ho says that she has had a hysterectomy or her tubes tied, it's a sure sign that either she's damaged herself medically prior to being with you or that she's lying. I have personally heard of more tubal ligation failures than a little bit when dealing with situations of infidelity and whoredom.
Ho Rule 10: If she violated her "principles" to get with you, she violated them for someone else also.
Often the adulterer feels that he is the exclusive interlude. Don't believe it for a second. No matter how late you leave, second shift shows up either at the door or on the phone. After you leave the job opportunity is always open sometimes like a McDonalds drive through. The adulterer should remember that just like there was him, with a ho there will be another.
Numbers 32:23 ~"But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your SIN WILL FIND YOU OUT."
There is no excuse for either Rielle or Edwards in this case and matter and the intent of this article is not so much as to criticize failure, because I don't think that's helpful, as much as it is to point out the fact that infidelity is a very serious with serious implications. It means much more than sex and most times sex is the trap that subdues the emotions. This type of thing that Rielle thinks is simply a cavalier event, could mean a change in life or even faith for many.
I am aware of a particular atheist, who lost hisfaith after infidelity. In that case he was accused of rape and got no support form those around him. However, when a ho does what she does she will sweep away all forms of support.
Ho Rule 11: Don't think for a minute that a ho won't contact, friends, family, workplaces and even the police under the wrong circumstances especially if she finds that her plans are thwarted.
Dealing honestly and openly with the situation is the key. Run away from the temptation at all costs. In every marriage outside temptations will come. That is a given. Temptations come in all shapes, sizes and humilities. Only God can fix what has been broken and can take the guilt and stain of sin and shame away.
James 1:14 ~ "But every man is tempted, when he is DRAWN AWAY of his own lust, and enticed."
If a person has ever been caught up in an adulterous situation, they can relate to much of what I have shared in this post. A person that has repented has been redeemed from the power and stain of sin. In some cases there is yet a price that must be paid for whoredom, but God is gracious and true repentance and turning as well as healing and restoring can be done even by even those who were the worst offenders.
Man whatever you do...DON'T DO IT!